tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957421478772087620.post7073045431298934569..comments2023-06-14T10:29:01.894+02:00Comments on My point of turning: PI-ARTKim van Waardenburghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11737848184316666015noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957421478772087620.post-16230087109489138802015-06-02T14:54:19.741+02:002015-06-02T14:54:19.741+02:00<3<3RitaJChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18071944384031794942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957421478772087620.post-15202674508412710452015-05-21T13:45:43.547+02:002015-05-21T13:45:43.547+02:00What a lovely story about the girls! Asking help c...What a lovely story about the girls! Asking help can be to much trouble too. Hard to explain to friends! One thing that can help after getting used to all the "have to's" is constantly trying to focus on making things easier. We know Scotland was great for you, I also know that coming back needs all your attention again. And writing about the freedom of Scotland kan also brings grief of all the things you lost. Soooooo, don't write! it's OK! we love you and like to hear about you, but if you need of line time take it! <3 so, another ritual that helped me for a while: take a simple notebook in the evening and write down in only 5 minutes 3 blessings, even the smallest en obvious things (roof, running water.....if you are to tired for it) I did it for a while and it helped me. You might ad 1 thing somebody else could have done for you if you thought about it before. For Help: I make a small box with jobs for my studio help. Prepare the work for her, and if she comes I can just give her the box. Can you please do this for me?...........One other tip is, if I have to drive to a place for the kids and the time is to short to go home in between I go to a nice place (for me it is Villa Augustus, the kids go to school in Dordrecht.) And drink a latte and read and write in my notebook......or just stare at people...Hope you can pick one thing that fits you to feel less lonely.....you are not really lonely, you are overwhelmed and FEEL lonely. <3ecotextilestudiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12408488917112163546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957421478772087620.post-64101495262214966422015-05-21T00:03:47.459+02:002015-05-21T00:03:47.459+02:00thank you Cate , I know i have to take care of mys...thank you Cate , I know i have to take care of myself too, but i am just not good in asking someone's help... <br />Kim van Waardenburghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11737848184316666015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957421478772087620.post-90681194783870943182015-05-21T00:02:35.879+02:002015-05-21T00:02:35.879+02:00thank you Ama!thank you Ama!Kim van Waardenburghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11737848184316666015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957421478772087620.post-57854999280699753602015-05-20T14:30:59.259+02:002015-05-20T14:30:59.259+02:00Thank you for sharing your daily life with us - th...Thank you for sharing your daily life with us - the highs & the lows. I wish there was a way to make life easier. Maybe make an appointment with yourself - just for you. Nurture yourself whenever possible. Love & light to all of you.cate markeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06650102955896085493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957421478772087620.post-10300000815566159332015-05-20T10:16:19.156+02:002015-05-20T10:16:19.156+02:00Lovely to read about the sisters having fun togeth...Lovely to read about the sisters having fun together. <br />Sorry to read you both have your lonely moments in this.<br />Big hugs for all.<br /><br />Ama<br />Amahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12787818866608549480noreply@blogger.com